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Chapter 10 · of ten

The first year rehearsed.

The last one looks forward. You walk through the first twelve months in advance, then read back the nine lines you already agreed to.

What this chapter asks.

This is placeholder text. The finished page explains what the chapter opens with, why it sits at this point in the ten, and what changes between the answer you write on your own and the conversation you have once both of you are done.

It also says plainly what Prevow does not do here: nothing is ranked, nothing is summed up, and neither of you is told what the answers mean. You read them side by side and decide that yourselves.

You leave chapter ten with your ten lines.

Three of the questions

Answered on your own, first.

  • What would tell you the first year had gone well?
  • What do you expect to be harder after the wedding than before it?
  • When do we sit down and go through all of this again?

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