Faith ritual and the everyday.
Belief, observance, and the small repeated things that end up being a household. You leave with one ritual that belongs to neither family.
What this chapter asks.
This is placeholder text. The finished page explains what the chapter opens with, why it sits at this point in the ten, and what changes between the answer you write on your own and the conversation you have once both of you are done.
It also says plainly what Prevow does not do here: nothing is ranked, nothing is summed up, and neither of you is told what the answers mean. You read them side by side and decide that yourselves.
You leave chapter nine with one ritual of your own.
Answered on your own, first.
- Which day of the year would you refuse to give up?
- What do you want a child of ours taught, if anything?
- Where do you want to be married, and who decides that?